Who suffers from stress? I do! Who wants to find a balance between work and fun? I do! Who believes such a thing does not exist? Meeeeeee! I do not think there is a way to separate “work” from “life.” I believe I feel this way because, 1- I love my job, and 2- I have a personal interest in my job. I care about it… and so it, and the relationships I hold within it carry into my personal life. There simply is not a line of separation. When it comes to stress I have as much, if not more, stress in my personal life as my professional life. I do believe that finding balance is about finding ways to NOT stress, or at least finding those personal things that you can do to distance yourself from all the problems in your world. Those two things for me are running and gardening. Running is the only form of exercise that makes me feel this way… I think it is a breathing thing. Gardening makes me feel this way because, for some reason, I focus on nothing else when I’m gardening. The mud, the occassional electric shocks from leaning into the fence, all the plants, the concentration, the risk, the thought that goes into it… the list could go on. I believe this is why I get really ansy this time of year. We are always very cautious about our first planting, because so many things can happen… like snow in late March? So, I listen to the old timers and patiently wait for this time of year. Finally, we have some things in the ground! Onions, red and yellow!:
Potatoes, all kinds!:
How to get straight lines:
And of course, no post is complete, and no garden fully fertilized without my main man:
I lovvvvvvveee this time of year. Many more plants just waiting to go in the mud. One last thought from one of my Grandma’s: “A real Southern woman does not need makeup starting in the Spring.” I feel less stressed already!